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EC – Also known as the diaper free baby!

January 29, 2020 By: melody gaboury

Raising children is a creative endeavor, an art rather than a science.

Bruno Bettelheim

Elimination Communication (EC)

Your baby is trying to tell you that it’s time to go. Elimination communication not as time-consuming as full-time diapering and later potty training. It can, at times, feel inconvenient but the benefits sure pay off.

Quinn’s first time on the potty!

While I was pregnant with our first baby Elijah. I pick up a copy of the Diaper Free Baby. This book and methods really intrigued me.

Mammals Don’t Poop Where They Live

I’d never thought about the fact that no other mammal in the world wants to eliminate in their living space. This made me think about our dogs, Diego & Leon. Even they prefer to leave the yard to void their bowels. Diego, our bigger dog, will hang onto “it” 💩until we walk him. He won’t poop in the yard unless we’ve neglected to get him out for his morning walk.

Diego exploring and swimming at Valley of the Five lakes

So with our first baby, we began elimination communication soon after he was born. Remember those sleepless nights? It took quite a bit of faith that EC made sense. Well, it did work out & we used EC with our 2nd baby too. By about 5 months, both babies were able to wait to have their diaper removed to use the potty. But the process wasn’t exactly the same with our second baby.

What Am I Doing Wrong?

Nothing! But we sure do feel that way often enough don’t we? We felt like graduates of EC university after our 1st so when baby #2 didn’t follow the same pattern, I wondered what I was doing wrong.

Babies Do What Comes Naturally

The Diaper Free Baby also discussed that babies show the same desire to keep their living area clean as they will often go once the diaper is removed. It’s not natural to go in a diaper. We experienced this with both babies. Therefore, both Elijah and Quinn starting using a potty at 3 weeks old.

Elijah’s 1st Potty Time!

I have to admit with our first baby we were very motivated and had more time in general. He was telling us at 11 months when he had to go. And by 18 months, our son was wearing underwear!! Quinn took a little longer, I think because she went to daycare were they weren’t prepared to take her to the potty.

Even with those sorts of challenges, Quinn didn’t have a bm in her diaper after she was 1-year-old and was in underwear by the time she was 22 months.

So Where Do You Start?

EC On Baby’s First Holiday

Like all things parenting, there isn’t an exact blueprint. I know. Big surprise! There are actually many ways to follow EC.

Routine

The New PB: Potty Before

As you can see here, Diego is ready to get out for his relief walk. This is not the time you want to realize your baby has a wet or stinky diaper.

EC is just as much, or even more, about training the grownups in the room. We always put both babies on the potty first thing when they woke up. On those mornings when I would have liked a few more moments of sleep, it took serious commitment but the endgame was worth it.

There were never any tears involved and would have to say it was an enjoyable experience for everyone. Some people may think this is more work than diapers but I can assure you that’s not so. Remembering to put your baby on the potty before putting on winter gear just makes sense even if you aren’t doing EC.

No Un-Training

EC is actually less work in the long run because you won’t have to potty train a 2 or 3-year-old who has already been taught to go in a diaper. Once a child has gotten used to eliminating in a diaper, it is tougher to potty train. Toddlers also don’t like to have to take a break from playing to go to the bathroom so they’ll tend to prefer an accident to the boredom of sitting on a potty.

Potties for Infants

We recommend this little Baby Bjorn potty with the backrest. The backrest was helpful when they were really little. Just to make it a little easier, I also loved putting babies in cloth diapers with the baby legs – rather than dressing completely while at home. What I noticed to rare time I used disposables was that the wet sensation isn’t there to signal to your baby it’s potty time.

Diapers & Cloth Pull Ups

We invested very little in cloth diapers because I was able to find used, near-new condition cloth diapers online. The price of brand-new diapers can be hard to handle but even if you buy new, the cost will still be lower than if you use disposables. Besides being a huge problem for the environment, disposable diapers will cost you $2500-$3000 whereas cloth diapers (purchasing & washing) are well under $700.

Lavender & Tea Tree Wipes

We made wipes from small squares of soft flannel with finished edges & a homemade baby wipe solution from this recipe:

  • 1/8 cup olive oil
  • 1 ½ cup boiled water
  • 1 tsp Castille soap
  • 2 drops tea tree oil
  • 4 drops lavender oil

What Have You Got To Lose?

The earlier you start, the easier it will be. But even if your baby has been in diapers for a little while, you’ll enjoy the benefits of watching for signs that your baby needs to go on the potty. The easiest one is when they first wake up in the morning or after a nap. At other times, you’ll get to know their shifts in energy or other signs like getting deep in thought.

Quinn just after her 1st birthday

It might seem like a lot of effort to run to the bathroom but it’s a lot less work than washing diapers. What really sells me on Elimination Communication is how early my kids were completely done with diapers and how few really stinky diapers I had to change & wash.

Everybody’s situation is different so EC might not be an option. There is no right or wrong way when your heart is in the right place. There’s what works for your family.

I’d love to hear your stories. Have you tried EC?

Comments

  1. Meg Arn says

    April 23, 2020 at 8:07 pm

    We are working on EC training and having success my baby is one year old and sits in the potty after waking up from her naps and first thing in the am. So far she seems to like it but we’re only a month in..

  2. melody gaboury says

    April 28, 2020 at 1:03 pm

    Great job Meg! I know for many parents it seems overwhelming and maybe difficult. Good for you for starting now… I hope your little one will be diaper free soon too!!

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